Vicarious Trauma: What It Is and How to Recognize It in Yourself
You don’t have to experience trauma firsthand to feel its effects. Vicarious trauma can impact anyone who cares deeply. This blog unpacks what it is, how to recognize it, and how to begin healing.
What Is “The Ick” in Dating & Can You Move Past It?
You’ve probably heard the phrase "getting the ick", but what does it really mean? And is it something to take seriously or move through? In this blog, I break it all down. What is it? What to do about it? And what are the hidden processes that you might not be aware are causing it!
Why Pets Feel Like Home: How Animal Companionship Boosts Mental Health
Inspired by my feature in Health Magazine, this blog explores the emotional value of pet companionship, how animals help regulate our nervous system, reduce anxiety, and offer connection to women navigating trauma, loneliness, or anxiety.
The Worst Things to Say to Someone Who’s Depressed & What to Say Instead
When someone opens up about depression, how we respond matters more than we think. In this blog, I share what I told Time Magazine during our interview. Why certain common phrases can hurt more than help, and what to say instead to truly support the people we care about.
What Is Complex PTSD? Understanding Signs & Symptoms in Women
Complex PTSD often hides behind high-functioning anxiety or burnout. This blog explores how long-term emotional trauma, like childhood neglect, toxic relationships, or medical trauma, can silently impact your wellbeing, and how trauma therapy for women can support healing.
Sunshine Guilt: Why You Feel Bad Staying Inside & How to Let That Go
Inspired by my recent interview with HuffPost, this blog explores sunshine guilt, why so many of us feel anxious or ashamed for staying inside on a beautiful day, and how therapy can help you unlearn that pressure and reconnect with what you truly need.
Does Birth Order Really Shape Who We Are? Here’s What I See in the Therapy Room
Inspired by my recent collaboration with Yahoo Life, this post explores how birth order can shape everything from our stress response to how we connect in relationships. As a therapist, I see these subtle patterns show up in my clients' lives all the time. In this article, I unpack how our sibling roles can influence our emotional and even physical health.
How to Spot Red Flags in a Relationship—Before You Get Too Deep
In my recent feature with Vogue, I shared how so many young women struggle to spot red flags in dating and why that’s not a personal failure. In this post, I talk about what red flags really look like, why we ignore them, and how therapy can help you rebuild self-trust and choose safer, healthier love.
Why Journaling Can Be a Game-Changer for Your Mental Health
In my recent collaboration with Her Agenda, I shared insights on how journaling can be a powerful tool for managing anxiety and self-doubt. Through practices like free-writing and gratitude journaling, young women can find clarity and emotional relief. I hope this conversation inspires you to explore journaling as a path to healing!
What Is Emotional Cheating? Signs, Impact, and How to Heal
Emotional cheating can be just as painful as a physical affair. In this new blog, inspired by my recent interview with Vogue, I explore what emotional cheating really looks like, why it hurts so much, and how to begin healing. Whether you're rebuilding trust or making sense of your feelings, therapy can help.
The Top Challenges of Moving in Together—And How to Navigate Them with Care
This blog expands on my recent collaboration with The Knot and offers therapist-backed guidance for young women in New York navigating the emotional, logistical, and relational challenges that come with cohabitation. Learn how to protect your connection, set boundaries, and care for your emotional well-being during this big life transition.
Medical Trauma: What It Is and How Therapy Can Help You Heal
If you’ve ever walked away from a medical experience feeling rattled, dismissed, or not quite the same—it might be medical trauma. I recently spoke with MDLinx about this important topic, and in this blog, I’m sharing even more on what medical trauma is, why it happens, and how therapy can help you feel safe and whole again. You’re not alone, and healing is absolutely possible.
The Worry Window Technique: A Therapist’s Guide to Anxiety Relief
Does your mind ever feel like it’s overflowing with worries? You’re not alone. Anxiety can be relentless. One powerful tool I teach my clients is the Worry Window technique. I recently shared insights on this with Self Magazine, in this blog post you will find the full breakdown on how you can use this strategy to regain control, ease your mind, and bring more calm into your daily life.
The Truth About Divorce in Your 30s: A Turning Point, Not a Failure
Divorce in your 30s can feel overwhelming, but it’s not a failure—it’s a courageous step toward a life that truly fits you. While grief is real, so is growth. This is your chance to rediscover yourself, your happiness, and your future. You’re not alone, and support is here if you need it.
How Many Times Couples Should Have Sex Every Week?
In a recent collaboration with Newsweek, I had the opportunity to share insights on this very topic. We examined how frequently couples engage in sex on average and the various factors that influence intimacy. However, the key takeaway goes beyond mere numbers—what truly matters is the depth of connection and overall satisfaction. Let’s explore what that means for your relationship.
Breadcrumbing: Why It Happens and How to Stop Falling for It
I had the lovely opportunity to collaborate with Brides online magazine to share my therapist expert insights on breadcrumbing—what it is, why people do it, and how it impacts dating and relationships. Recognizing it early can help you reclaim your time, energy, and sense of worth. So, let’s dive in!
Why Play is Essential for a Secure, Lasting Relationship?
When was the last time you and your partner truly played together—no screens, no distractions, just laughter, curiosity, and connection? I was recently interviewed by Women’s Health Magazine on this very topic. Here I expand on why playing games as a couple is one of the best tools to build a strong and secure bond with your partner. Also, which ones I personally recommend!
How People-Pleasing Can Ruin Your Sex Life?A Guide for Young Couples
A fulfilling sex life requires both parties to feel seen, acknowledged and gratified. If you’ve ever found yourself saying “yes” when you really meant “no” or prioritizing your partner’s needs while neglecting your own, this blog post is for you! I share expert tips to break free from this cycle and cultivate a more fulfilling, authentic sex life.
Breaking Up Over Text: Is It Ever Okay? A Therapist Explains
Let’s be real, breakups are never easy. Whether you’re ending a short-lived situationship or a long-term relationship, figuring out how to do can feel overwhelming. Is breaking up over text ever ok? As a relationship therapist who specializes in helping young women navigate relationships and dating, I was recently interviewed by Self Magazine on this very topic. Here is the full break down!
Climate Anxiety in Young Adults: What Is It and How To Find Relief?
If you are a young adult with a deep sense of worry, dread, or helplessness about the future of our planet, you’re not alone. Climate anxiety is on the rise, particularly among young adults. Luckily, there are ways to navigate this kind of anxiety, find relief, and turn these feelings into meaningful action!